The way we actually are

If  we consider the way that we are as a circle; the way that we think we are as one circle; the way others see us as a circle; also the way we think that others perceive us as one circle; and finally the way that we want to be perceived by others as one circle. Usually these five circles overlapping, but for some people can be separate and for quite few people completely overlapping. When the first and second circles are not overlapping is the case of self deception that is the worst type of deception. When the third and the fourth circle are not overlapping is the case of real misunderstanding. Finally if the fifth circle is not overlapping it means the failure in communicating.